Insecurities

I believe it to be true that this generation is one of the most vicious and bloodthirsty generations that we have ever known. Girls of this generation have fit themselves into this delusional reality that if they hurt someone else, then they'll feel better about themselves. We all have experienced in some way this torture. Whether you're getting talked down by your friends or getting a nasty rumor spread about you, we all go through it. This today's society doesn't help us either. Magazines and TV always telling us how we should look, what our hair should look like, whether we're pretty or not, and mostly our weight and body shape. Us girls can be terrible, we get so caught up in our insecurities that we destroy each other. Remember that you're beautiful inside and out. I believe that though we try, we'll always feel worthless and sad. Just remember you don't need someone else to make you happy, you get that from yourself. You cannot love someone else if you first and foremost don't love yourself. Learn to laugh, Learn to love, and Learn to live. In fact learn to fly. Fly towards the sunset and into your dreams of a better tomorrow. You don't need anothers approval about yourself. You need only to believe in yourself. And make your dreams come true. It's time for a new era. The era of Dreams.
Make it Shine,
Luxe

Don't Be a Fool For Love

Prepare yourself mentally:

• The most important thing is to make sure you are ready to have sex with your partner.
• Don't rush! If you or your partner is not prepared then wait, it will be a much better sexual experience if you are both prepared.
• Make sure you know what you're getting into, and if you're a girl prepare yourself for some pain.

The next thing you should do is prepare yourself physically:

• Sex is a big step in your relationship. So make sure you're prepared to go through with it.
• Ladies, it will hurt. When having sex for the first time, a man will break what is called a hymen when his penis goes inside you.
• Gentlemen, be gentle. If it is you ladies' first time, chances are she will bleed. And make sure you are well lubricated so it will hurt her less. If you care about her, you'll put her needs before yours.

The next category is BE PREPARED:

• There are several things you should have on hand when having sex.
• Pick a good reliable condom, because nothing ruins your sex life better than getting someone pregnant when you're not ready for a child.
• Have lubricant. It will be less painful for you girl if you're lubricated.
• Get tested. You want to enhance your sex life, not destroy it. So before having sex, get tested for herpes, HIV, or STD's.
• If its your first time, it will be awkward. I know that you're painted this picture that your first time will be magical, that's not the case. In reality, practice makes perfect.

I hope this better prepared you for what you're getting into. Be prepared, research what you're going to do. It will make it so much better in the long run.

Also, know the risks of sex.

For more info please visit the following:
http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/children/teens/sexuality/276.html
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/stds-hiv-safer-sex/safer-sex-4263.htm


Make it Shine,
Luxe

Who I Am.

Follow Your Heart ♥ ☻ ♥ ☺ ♥
I want people to see me as who I am as a person. I don't want people to look at my clothes or my hair or my body. I want them to look at Me and my personality. I don't see why people are so petty, everyone tells me I'm dreaming. They all say it isn't possible, but I see a world full of love, free of hate and selfishness. I see a world where people have learned to forgive and forget. Can you tell me where this world is? "The world will know peace when the love of power is overcome by the power of love." Is it that impossible? I feel like I'm thousand miles away from myself. Maybe who I am today, isn't so far from yesterday.. Can I find a way to be, every part of me? I want anyone who reads this to know that you have to be yourself. Don't ever let anyone tell you to be anyone but yourself, You're important. Don't ever think different. Follow your dreams and most importantly follow your heart.
Make it Shine, Luxe

New Theme Song

Make it Shine by Victoria Justice