Don't Be a Fool For Love

Prepare yourself mentally:

• The most important thing is to make sure you are ready to have sex with your partner.
• Don't rush! If you or your partner is not prepared then wait, it will be a much better sexual experience if you are both prepared.
• Make sure you know what you're getting into, and if you're a girl prepare yourself for some pain.

The next thing you should do is prepare yourself physically:

• Sex is a big step in your relationship. So make sure you're prepared to go through with it.
• Ladies, it will hurt. When having sex for the first time, a man will break what is called a hymen when his penis goes inside you.
• Gentlemen, be gentle. If it is you ladies' first time, chances are she will bleed. And make sure you are well lubricated so it will hurt her less. If you care about her, you'll put her needs before yours.

The next category is BE PREPARED:

• There are several things you should have on hand when having sex.
• Pick a good reliable condom, because nothing ruins your sex life better than getting someone pregnant when you're not ready for a child.
• Have lubricant. It will be less painful for you girl if you're lubricated.
• Get tested. You want to enhance your sex life, not destroy it. So before having sex, get tested for herpes, HIV, or STD's.
• If its your first time, it will be awkward. I know that you're painted this picture that your first time will be magical, that's not the case. In reality, practice makes perfect.

I hope this better prepared you for what you're getting into. Be prepared, research what you're going to do. It will make it so much better in the long run.

Also, know the risks of sex.

For more info please visit the following:
http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/children/teens/sexuality/276.html
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/stds-hiv-safer-sex/safer-sex-4263.htm


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